KIP-830 — Allow disabling JMX Reporter

Accepted Kafka 3.4 Metrics

Adds an `auto.include.jmx.reporter` configuration (deprecated in 3.x, removed in 4.0) to allow disabling the `JmxReporter` that was previously always injected regardless of the `metric.reporters` setting, and makes `JmxReporter` a standard entry in `metric.reporters` default in Kafka 4.0. Without this, operators in environments that do not use JMX cannot eliminate the JmxReporter overhead or consolidate metrics to a single explicitly configured reporter.

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